It's just a small scene in The Graduate, maybe even a scene within a scene. Benjamin, scoping out the hotel for his first liaison with Mrs. Robinson, says he's with the Singleman party, a wedding reception or something going on in the hotel ballroom. He's soooo not with the Singleman party.

Saturday, September 29, 2007

Mrs. Robinson, you're trying to seduce me.

I don't know the year I first saw "The Graduate." It was the early '70s. I was in junior high school. I remember TV Guide's fall preview issue listed the major motion pictures that the networks would show that year. This was big, huge. There were no HBOs, no DVDs, hell, no VCRs. So the networks were it. If you missed a movie in the theater, you had to wait for TV. So I remember looking at that TV Guide and mentally marking when I could watch "The Graduate" -- and "Planet of the Apes" -- on my family's B&W TV.


Well, that was the long way around. And maybe not the best lead, huh? What I wanted to tell you is that "The Graduate" made an immediate impact on me. It started with the music, Simon & Garfunkel, and the fact I felt a disconnection, even at that young age, with so much around me. I saw my disconnect echoed in Benjamin Braddock, and "The Sound of Silence" was a song that spoke to me (to use a really bad pun).

So the music hooked me -- it also won a Grammy -- and when the movie came to TV, I was very excited. And it didn't disappoint. It was the perfect movie for that time, obviously not just for me, but for a generation that wanted something different. Even though we might not know what that different life was, and didn't realize that, in the end, we may end up with what our parents had.

Ben and his father in his bed room just after the son has flown home from college in the East.

Mr. Braddock: What's the matter? The guests are all downstairs, Ben, waiting to see you.

Benjamin: Look, Dad, could you explain to them that I have to be alone for a while?

Mr. Braddock: These are all our good friends, Ben. Most of them have known you since, well, practically since you were born. What is it, Ben?

Benjamin: I'm just...

Mr. Braddock: Worried?

Benjamin: Well...

Mr. Braddock: About what?

Benjamin: I guess about my future.

Mr. Braddock: What about it?

Benjamin: I don't know... I want it to be...

Mr. Braddock: To be what?

Benjamin: [looks at his father] ... Different.


(Thank you, imdb.com)

2 comments:

Esther said...

Congratulations on the new blog, MofP! The Graduate's one of my all-time favorite movies, too. I don't remember the first time I saw it, probably around the same time you did. And I also remember the sense of giddy anticipation when the fall preview issue of TV Guide arrived in the mail!

Man of Polyester said...

Esther

Thanks a lot. I hope I can live up to your example on Gratuitous Violins. I look forward to your post on Mad Men.